Monday, October 18, 2010

Confusion in the Church

Thirty years ago, the pro-gay viewpoint was embraced only in a few isolated congregations. Since then, however, many denominations have changed their traditional viewpoint on the subject of homosexuality. In a table discussion recently at my church, we were challenged to pray for one another because each of us is facing a culture which is increasingly pro-gay. So, I thought I would begin blogging about this in an attempt to provide a Biblical response.

There have been several trends over the past 100 years which made today's debate over homosexuality inevitable. During the twentieth century, a growing number of churches began to drift away from the traditional view of the Word of God. The Bible's ideas were increasingly seen as dated and no longer applicable to our time and culture.

An individuals personal experiences rose to a higher place of authority than the Scriptures. What modern science said, or what my own experiences told me, became the most important criteria on which to evaluate moral issues.

Laying a foundation: In today's debate within the church, arguments about homosexuality usually center around a few isolated biblical verses. Often overlooked is the foundational teaching on human sexuality, as presented in the first chapter of Genesis: "So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them" (Gen. 1:27). Immediately after their creation, God commanded Adam and Eve to "be fruitful and increase in number" by means of sexual procreation (v. 28).

The Word of God reveals that any alteration of this pattern is a distortion of God's original plan. When sex occurs between men and women without a lifelong comitment (fornacation or adultery), or between two men or two women (homosexual "marriage"), or one man and multiple "wives" (polygamy), these acts are outside of God's perfect plan (His will).

It takes Faith:Anyone who is willing to base their life on Faith in God, not on feelings, knows that our faith will be tested; temptations, trials, and tribulations will come.It all comes down to WHO you will trust. Hebrews 11 tells us; "Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. For by it the men of old received divine approval. By faith we understand that the world was created by the word of God, so that what is seen was made out of things which do not appear".

I look at it this way, if God made it, it's His. He owns it. Since He owns it, He gets to make the rules. If I am willing to accept His authority as my God, I am willing to let His word be the guide for my life. I know that my feelings, one way or another, could really get me confused. After all, sometimes I feel a certain way because I didn't get enough sleep, or have had too much caffine, or got cut off in traffic,...you get the drift. So, which do you choose to live by...If it feels good, do it...or...Do you think God has a right to make rules about our lives?

I'll be on this topic for a while I think...you might want to read about the "born that way" theory in this article

5 comments:

  1. Well I am thankful that God directed me here. For too long society has watered down and made excuses. The best thing is God's word (the Bible) is NEVER changing. We need to love on our brothers and sisters, it is our job as disciples to expose them to the truth in such a way that it will be revealed to each person who finds themselves questioning/living a life less than God has for them. The Lord brought to mind Jeremiah 29:11-14 in which I will meditate this night. Praise His Holy Name, "Jesus"

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  2. The Word says in Deut. 6:5 and in Lev. 19:18 that we are to "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind and love your neighbor as yourself." We need to love gay folks the way that God loves us....completely.

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  3. Yes, I agree that we need to love those who have chosen the gay/lesbian life style. I am very kind to them and always treat them with respect. I am not a person hater. However, the bible/God says that those who practice the gay/lesbian life style are perverted, shameless, wicked, godless, without excuse, have shameful lust, unnatural, indecent, depraved mind, evil, god-haters, indecent, deserve death from God, etc..... Romans 1:18-28 uses all these words plus more. There are many more areas in the Bible that agree with the fact that the Gay/Lesbian life style puts a person at risk to be completely rejected by God. Lev 20:15. For a gay person to ignore this fact is saying that they do not serve God and serve themself/sin/the devil at the expense of destroying the world's society with the perverted act of sodomy. Plain and simple. Separate yourself from God by the choosing to disregard the scriptures that you have read is requesting to be separated from God forever. But asking God our Father/the Lord Jesus Christ for forgiveness, stop living the Gay lifestyle, receive Jesus into your heart and ask the Holy Spirit to come into your heart and restore you to the person God originally created you to be, and start attending a Christian bible based church, enables one to return back into relationship with God and live God's way. Because life really is God's way or no way. I didn't write the Bible, God did.

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  4. I'm certainly not a pastor, or well educated in the area of doctrine but I love Jesus and it breaks my heart to see us his children, not doing what he asked of us. The final commandments left by Jesus were to love the Lord our God with all our heart, with all mind and strength and to love our neighbors as ourself. Is that Jesus way of saying listen people in the end what matters? Love! Now obviously not as a justification for sinful life, but if we're gonna take a stand - can we make sure it's for the right thing.....?

    My concern and the thing that breaks my heart is that so many “Christians” have been taking a stand against the wrong thing. It's not the person (who is hurting, broken and lost) that we should stand against, shouldn’t it rather be that we chose not to agree that their lifestyle is correct.. the same way we wouldn't agree that those choosing a life of addiction is correct. BUT that we still love the person. I’m not talking about an i love you because i'm commanded to, as long as you stand over there, i'll pray for you on sunday kind of way….

    I don't think that's what Jesus meant when he said to love one another; or to love your neighbor as yourself. That's not the example that Jesus set for us. He didn't go up to the people who were hurting, broken and lost and say listen you're wrong, i'm right so get your act together now. He walked with them, he talked with them, he loved them, he fed them, he cried with them...

    How then as followers of Christ do we get this so wrong, and ignore the pain?

    Either accepting that the sinful life is just okay, to each his own, thereby turning your eyes/face/heart to the pain that is still inside?

    OR we recognize the sin and yet still ignore the pain inside by telling them it's wrong and they should just get right.

    Where's the love in either of those? So my question is this, how do I not waiver on the truth that homosexuality is wrong while still loving deeply the hurting person inside?

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  5. There are many who respond to homosexual men and women with fear and ignorance, as well as those who want to uphold homosexuality as a valid, Christ-centered lifestyle. However, both extremes fail to convey to the homosexual person the fullness of redemption found in Christ. I, for one,want to endorse a redemptive response. I want to develop a church community filled with people who humbly make themselves available to assist overcomers in the midst of their healing and change process. The Bible clearly states that, "All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God." I believe that Jesus did not come to condemn anyone, but to redeem and free the people from the bondages they find themselves in. Homosexuality is just one form of bondage brought about by the brokeness of humanity, along with greed, hatred, fear, dishonesty, etc. What people need, ALL people, more than anything else is restoration through Christ, truth, compassion and an atmosphere of love and acceptance as they move toward wholeness and change. People need time and a place to cultivate healthy relationships with appropriate boundaries in which satisfying and enjoyable relationships can grow. Will the church ever be that place? That remains to be seen.

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